The passing of Pyari Maryam — a social-media influencer whose bright smile and lively presence had won her a place in many hearts — has shocked and saddened many. Her untimely departure is a stark reminder that life in this world is fragile and fl
eeting. In light of her loss, it is worth reflecting on a deeper, spiritual perspective: the transient nature of this worldly life, and the eternal reality that awaits every soul.
🕊 The Reality of the World: A Temporary Journey
Islam teaches us repeatedly that this world — the “dunya” — is not our final abode. Rather, it is a temporary station, a test, and a preparation ground for what comes after.
In the Qur’an, Allah says of worldly life: “This worldly life is nothing but amusement and diversion and adornment and boasting to one another … then it becomes [scattered] debris” (referring to how a spring’s vegetation withers and vanishes).
Another verse states: “Every soul will taste death, and you will only be given your [full] recompense on the Day of Resurrection. And what is the life of this world except the enjoyment of delusion.”
As echoed by venerable early-Muslim wisdom: “This world is transient.”
Thus, the life we lead now — our joys, fame, wealth, comforts — are, by definition, ephemeral. Sooner or later, we all return to our Lord, and what remains are our deeds and the state of our souls.
💭 What the Loss of a Life Like Pyari Maryam’s Teaches Us
The tragic death of a young, vibrant person like Pyari Maryam forces us to confront several truths:
No matter how popular, admired or successful we are, we cannot escape the inevitability of death.
All the worldly comfort, praise, and joy we chase can vanish in a moment — we might leave this world without having truly prepared for the permanent life to come.
When one becomes too attached to transient pleasures — fame, wealth, status, sensual comforts — it can distract from what really matters: the “accountable life” that will be judged.
Indeed, Islamic teachings warn against what is called hubb-e-dunya — excessive love for the worldly life. Such attachment often leads to neglect of spiritual obligations, of the afterlife, and of the soul’s true purpose.
✅ The Balanced Approach: Living with Faith While Embracing Reality
Islam does not call us to reject this world entirely: after all, we must live, provide for our families, contribute to society. But what it calls for is mindfulness, balance, and prioritization.
The believer should strive for what is good both in this world and in the Hereafter — as the Qur’an supplicates: “Our Lord! Give us in this world what is good and in the Hereafter what is good.”
We must remember that whatever we earn, build, or enjoy in dunya must never distract us from our ultimate goal: seeking Allah’s pleasure, building righteous character, and preparing for the eternal life.
Trials — like loss, hardship, sudden death — are part of the test. How we respond matters more than what we lose. As believers, we are encouraged to hold fast to faith, do good deeds, and remain humble and grateful.
🙏 A Call for Reflection and Return
The demise of Pyari Maryam is not just tragic for those who knew her, or those who enjoyed her content — it is a wake-up call for all of us. It reminds us that:
Life is unpredictable. We do not know when our time will come.
Material comforts, fame, recognition — all are fleeting.
What we truly take with us is our faith, our deeds, and the sincerity of our relationship with Allah.
Let this moment inspire us to re-evaluate our priorities. Let us seek more than just fleeting pleasures; let us work for lasting success — success of the soul. Let us remember: this world is a test, and what really matters is where we stand in the Hereafter.
May Allah grant the departed mercy, forgive her shortcomings, elevate her station, and grant her the highest abode in Paradise. And may He give strength and patience to her loved ones, and guide us all to live with wisdom, humility, and consciousness of our ultimate return.
“Know that the life of this world is but amusement and diversion … but the home of the Hereafter is truly the best for those who fear Allah.” (Qur’anic meaning)
Let us not be deceived by the fleeting glimmer of this world — instead, let us strive for what endures eternally.
